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Author: SLim Baba
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Please Help: I Am Living In Marital Trauma Every Day.

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Hello there,
Please help me. I am depressed and my husband is the cause of my depression. I have been married for 6 years and I have never been happy from day 1. I met my husband in church. I was a faithful girl and a virgin. I prayed to God to give me a husband that is worthy of my virginity cos it was very hard saving myself for marriage.
My husband (Peter…not real name) is supposed to be a christian but his ways are not very godly.Unfortunately,I did not notice that until we got married. He was a worker in church. I was a chorister. Our wedding was beautiful and I was very happy.
However,on the night of our wedding,my husband came to me for s*x and as a novice,it was very painful for me. I was in so much pain. It did not help matters that my husband was very aggressive. In-fact,he forced himself on me and did it twice that night. I cried and cried and bled so much.
Instantly,from that day,I began to hate him for forcing himself on me. All he kept saying to me was it was his right. From that day till today,every time my husband wants sx from me,he is very rough and aggressive and it hurts me so much. Even after 2 children. Sx is not something I see as love. I see it as an abuse on me.
I am traumatized every time I remember my first experience and I am not happy in my marriage. I feel sad that my husband does not care about my  feelings. I have spoken to elders in my church fellowship but they all don’t see it as serious. They say I should be praying ….that a virtuous wife should give her husband s*x anytime.
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I used to think this was normal but after I read some articles online,I became more convinced that I am being abused. S*x is supposed to be enjoyed in marriage but it scares the hell out of me. He even reported me to my mother who is old,the poor woman just begged him to be patient with me instead of telling him to stop hurting me.
Only one woman leader called us for counseling once. And my husband told her that if I complain that he will go out and meet other women. That he likes active sex so that he will not go out and find it outside. That other women enjoy rough s*x but he thinks I am abnormal or possessed or selfish.
The lady had to advise me to take paracetamol after s*x to reduce the pain. I think I am used to the pain now. The only problem is I feel very sad. Once I thought of running away or even killing myself but because of my children. I need your advise. Divorce is out of the question cos my church does not allow it.
This s*x problem is causing me to hate my husband. He never once told me he loves me after we got married. I don’t love him too. How can I love someone that hurts me? He thinks am childish,that I will outgrow it but am sinking more and regretting my marriage. How long can I continue to do this? Is there any solution for me?


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